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Why Haven’t I Heard From You?

On social media these days, not a day passes that someone doesn’t post how they have received insight from God either through prayer or through reading the Bible. These revelations by others can sometimes send us reeling with feelings of unworthiness, inferiority, and even frustration. We feel unworthy because God hasn’t chosen to reveal something extra special only to us. We feel inferior because others appear to have received something we must not be important enough to have. And perhaps secretly, we feel frustration because we can’t or won’t admit even to ourselves that God hasn’t really communicated with us in a really long time. We become discouraged and depressed because EVERYONE  ELSE appears to have their life pulled together and God is in the house rocking their spiritual lives. Can I get a hallelujah, amen?! 

So what are we to do?

If you are like me, you decide to immerse yourself in acts of service or you pray harder or you begin to read copious amounts of scripture because you know that is what a spiritual person should do. After all, the more I do for God, the more He definitely will listen. This concept is unscriptural. We aren’t saved by works, people. We are saved by grace, through Jesus Christ alone.

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—  not by works, so that no one can boast.” Ephesians 2:8,9 New International Version 

I’ve found, when our heavenly conduit falls silent, several reasons contribute to why we don’t hear from God. Although said many times, the truth is sin keeps us from hearing or feeling God’s direction in our lives. In the movie Serenity, when responding to the question of what his sin was, Captain Malcolm Reynolds responds “Ah Hell… I’m a fan of all seven.” I personally rather like pride, sloth, and hey – gluttony is not bad either.  In fact by my actions at times, I shamefully show that I’m a fan of all seven of the deadly sins. But I know that repentance and confession are like Drano in the conduit pipe to God. We’ve got to remove all of the junk in order to obtain the guidance, direction, or insight we seek.

“So get rid of your old self, which made you live as you used to – the old self that was being destroyed by its deceitful desires. Your hearts and minds must be made completely new, and you must put on the new self, which is created in God’s likeness and reveals itself in the true life that is upright and holy. No more lying, then! Each of you must tell the truth to the other believer, because we are all members together in the body of Christ. If you become angry, do not let your anger lead you into sin, and do not stay angry all day. Don’t give the Devil a chance. If you used to rob, you must stop robbing and start working, in order to earn an honest living for yourself and to be able to help the poor. Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you. And do not make God’s Holy Spirit sad; for the Spirit is God’s mark of ownership on you, a guarantee that the Day will come when God will set you free. Get rid of all bitterness, passion, and anger. No more shouting or insults, no more hateful feelings of any sort. Instead, be kind and tender-hearted to one another, and forgive one another, as God has forgiven you through Christ.” Ephesians 4:22-32 Good News Translation

Another barrier to being receptive to God’s urging is not listening. This barrier is the quickest to correct. Two words.  Slow. Down. During prayer and scripture reading time, pause and take time to listen, just a minute won’t do. To approach God in that way is like a kid rushing home from school, throwing his backpack on the counter with a “Hi Mom!,” and then headed out the door to play. Mom is left dazed and wondering about the day. God wants some time with us. An occasional order at God’s fast food counter is okay, but He really wants you to have a home cooked meal of time with Him.

“Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” Philippians 4:9 New International Version

The last and maybe my favorite of why we don’t hear from God is because He Already Told Us And We Aren’t Doing It. Always the perfect parent who gives a direction once and expects it to be carried out, God tells us what to do. Period. And He expects us to do it. We can’t still continue wondering about what to do or whining for Him to answer. The proverbial neon sign rarely appears blinking with the instructions previously given. God, in His grace and mercy, might tenderly remind us once or twice but after that silence often comes. He already told you. So, after you have double checked the first two barriers, consider the third. Did God already give you a direction? Are you stalling? Wallowing?  Do the thing He last told you to do until you have direction for the next.



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A Taste of Honey: Jeremiah 5:22

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May 24, 2017 · 1:07 pm

Clothes Reflect The Nature

Good Morning!

I live in a warm, humid climate. My usual clothing attire consists of summer type clothing nine months out of the year. The temperature doesn’t even get particularly cold during our winter months with snow being a rarity. In our climate, the weather can change rapidly. We have days that start extremely hot and humid and then plummet forty or fifty degrees by late afternoon. Most of the time, these temperature variations occur during our transition seasons. Some would disagree, laugh, and say, “All of the time”. 

Many years ago, I attended a fashion show sponsored by Glamour magazine. They were showcasing new summer wear. They modeled lightweight wool suits for business attire which they suggested we wear because the fabric doesn’t wrinkle. They suggested wool for us. Here. In the summer. The entire audience erupted in laughter. These fashion gurus, obviously, didn’t prepare properly for selling us clothes or weren’t from around here as we might say.

The latest trend in fashion is to cultivate a minimalist or capsule wardrobe. I’m fascinated by this trend. I really can’t imagine how people pull this off. Not only appealing for its simplicity, this wardrobe would make getting dressed easier than pie. These experts recommend I pare down my wardrobe to only thirty pieces. Thirty pieces including shoes! Some even suggest including undergarments. All of the sample wardrobes online contain only neutral clothing items. I don’t think this trend works for me. I need a little color in my life. My daughter would say pink; I need pink. Well, truth be told, I don’t like spending all of my time doing laundry and I would be, if I only had thirty pieces. Because many days between April and November, I change my clothes two to four times a day. Humidity has its challenges. After a morning walk, I’m drenched in sweat. No way – I can keep that outfit on. The second, third, or fourth outfit, typically, suffers the same fate.

“for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.” Galatians 3:27

“Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.” Romans 13:14

What does all of this talk about wardrobes and clothing have to do with the Bible? Not a lot and then again, maybe a lot. We are encouraged in scripture to clothe ourselves with the Lord Jesus. Sometimes, I wear inappropriate clothing like wool in a hot climate and those behaviors and attitudes leave me feeling uncomfortable and itchy in my spirit. God desires more from me. He knows that I know better than to wear gossip, envy, strife, or pride. Other times, I outfit myself minimally with God. I want to be thoroughly equipped for every good work. But at times, I forget to leave enough time for study and prayer with my busy schedule. Consequently, I haven’t thoroughly clothed myself in Him.

“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” Colossians 3:12-14

The only wardrobe that really matters is how I model Him to others. If I haven’t clothed myself with Him, then I have instead chosen to wear the desires of my sinful nature. These outfits don’t reflect my true relationship with Christ. I need to dress for the right climate at all times. How are you dressed today?



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A Taste of Honey: Psalm 80:3

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May 15, 2017 · 1:23 pm

Child Training

Good Morning!

“Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.” Proverbs 22:6

Maybe like me, you have heard this verse used in a variety of ways. One example is as a promise to a hopeful young parent that their child will reach adulthood with socially acceptable ways. And another usage offers hope to desperate parents of a wayward teen that their child will return to them and to the path they were taught.

One word that stands out to me is hidden in the verse and that word is the implied You. I am to train the child. I am responsible to set the course of my child’s direction. In order to train my child rightly, I need to know the direction myself. How can I hope to train and help my child, if I don’t know the course or if I’m not prepared? I have a grave responsibility whether my child chooses to follow the path or not that I’ve set before him/her.

“But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, and how from infancy you have known the holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.” 2 Timothy 3:14,15

A child will have many teachers throughout life. Some will be good and others won’t. As believers, we have a spiritual responsibility to the children in our lives whether they are biological or not. The examples we set by our words and actions influence and impact their spiritual lives. In scripture, Paul encourages his spiritual son, Timothy, in the faith to continue in what he had learned. We, too, can encourage the children within our sphere of influence to grow up and hold fast in their faith. We can teach and instruct them in the ways of God, encourage them to read, understand, and memorize scripture, to help and love others, and to pray for themselves, their family, and their friends.

“Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. They will be a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck.” Proverbs 1:8,9

We, the faithful, are called to pass on a legacy of faith to the next generation. Share your stories of faith. Tell of God’s goodness and lovingkindness towards you. Give God credit in the world around you. Live life as His servant.

“Love the LORD you God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” Deuteronomy 6:5-7




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A Taste of Honey: Ephesians 5:10

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May 8, 2017 · 1:21 pm

Crave Pure Milk

Good Morning!

Warm bread and olive oil, chips, popcorn, and chocolate, these foods are the ones that I find hard to resist. I don’t always crave them. But during the middle of the afternoon, my resolve wanes and, more often than I’d like to admit, I begin to want them. The foods we crave, generally speaking, tend to be high in the trifecta of cravers everywhere: fat, sugar, and salt.

“Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation, now that you have tasted that the Lord is good.” 1 Peter 2:2,3

Those first weeks of life, an infant wants to be fed every two hours. They hungrily seek and search frantically for the milk their mother provides as their craving to be fed kicks in. Satiated, the babe passes out in what can only be referred to as a milk coma. The cycle repeats two hours later when the need to be fed returns. Peter has issued quite a challenge to believers in this verse.

What makes a craver crave the pure spiritual milk God wants us to have? The knowledge that God is good and the taste of His loving kindness. One taste triggers the craving. I want, like a newborn baby, to latch on and drink freely of His word. When you know God is good, you want more.

“O Sovereign LORD, you are God! Your words are trustworthy, and you have promised these good things to your servant.” 2 Samuel 7:28

The word of God is loaded with the elements of fat, sugar, and salt. The perfect ingredients for those who have cravings. When the Israelites offered sacrifices to God, they were instructed to offer fat with the offerings. The fat of the animal was the choice part, the part God desired (Leviticus 3:16). Think of the fat of His word as the rich cream of milk, the heavy whipping cream that most of us don’t use often. His word is rich, abundant, and satisfies.

“How sweet are your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth!” Psalm 119:103

His word brings a spiritual sweetness to our lives. We can find encouragement, joy, and understanding within the pages of scripture that will bring a lightness to our spirits even in times of great difficulty. His word comforts, guides, teaches, and disciplines us in ways that refresh and restore our souls.

“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you make know how to answer everyone.” Colossians 4:6

In ancient times, newborns were salted (Ezekiel 16:4) to prevent infection and disease. Salt was also used as a preservative and a seasoning. The priests of Israel would use salt to purify the equipment used in the worship of God as well as include salt in the daily offerings by fire. The salt of His word purifies us through truth. We find words of correction and grace that season us so that we also can offer grace to others.

One taste of God’s kindness and goodness and we are no longer satisfied with any substitute. We only crave what He can offer. His word fills us and grows us into our salvation. Have you tasted that the Lord is good?

“Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in him.” Psalm 34:8



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